Man that is tough about your savings. It is good that you are taking a more active role in this portion of your life.
Yeah, nobody to blame but myself, though. I had ample warnings from people here and family and friends about finances. I didn't want to believe she would do something like that. And it may not all be related to her extra-ciricular activities, but a lot of it has to be. I am taking a more active role and that is a good thing.
Just one more piece of the puzzle that is fitting into place. She still denies everything but is running out of excuses.