Eric (and Jack) ..I'm not pissed. Everyone responds differenly to different approaches. jack tends to be like my brother..a little sarcastic. And I love my brother dearly, it's just not as easy for me to talk to him as it is, say..my BFF. I am a little sensitive right now too..this whole thing with my H has left me feeling quite bruised and rejected. I'm all about honestly and I'll be the first to admit if I have a problem or am doing something wrong. I've never had a problem with that. I just need to understand the logic behind the principle. I'm not going to blindly jump off a bridge unless I know what's down there waiting for me. I like to weigh my options..but first I have to find out what the options are.
I know all of you guys have been where I am right now and have probably tried the things I have and thought the same thoughts I'm thinking. It's pretty cool that you are all here trying to help us newbies.
