Allen..I concur. Only problem is, I can't end it for him. He has to do that himself, when he's ready. If I want the marriage to work, there is nothing left for me to do but GAL (as they say) and hope the A fizzles out on it's own. On the MLC boards, they say patience, patience, patience. He has to figure it out. He can keep dabbling with her but eventually I'll get tired of waiting and just walk away into the sunset. He can have her if that's what he wants. It won't do me any good to try to keep him here if he thinks she is the "one" anyway.
I'm not going to bring her up anymore. They say confrontation isn't the best thing for MCLers. It just makes them run back into the tunnel or something like that. Who knows maybe I won't even want him if this goes on much longer. So, I'll carry on the best I can until I can't anymore.
Being here with others who are in the same boat is helpful. But not if they're gonna get mad and make me feel like crap. I already have enough of that going on. I'm just looking for support and ideas. And maybe a new friend or two.
And I know you didn't mean to make me feel bad. That's the thing about emails..no voice inflection..so it's easy to get the wrong meaning behind the sentiment.
