The pain does go away. YOU have to let go. Once I did, the weight on me was lifted. I'm not going to say all the pain left, but hte burden was gone. I am happier now.

You need to let go, then GAL. It is great you quite gambling. What else do you want to do? Since you are not throwing money away now, you can put it towards something fun and exciting to do.

Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10