Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Quicksilver264]

All I am saying that if he chooses to come find me, so be it. I am NOT going to back down from anything. I don't want to fight, but WILL defend myself.

And if in defending myself I get roughed up, I'll get over it. I have before. And he will get over it in jail. I am not LOOKING for a physical fight, but I will not cower simply because he says he wants to discuss things in person.

I cowered with myself all last night and this morning. I finally realized that I need to have some balls and SHOW that I am as strong as I really am.

[DaddyLongShanks]

All I am saying that if he chooses to come find me, so be it. I am NOT going to back down from anything. I don't want to fight, but WILL defend myself.

And if in defending myself I get roughed up, I'll get over it. I have before. And he will get over it in jail. I am not LOOKING for a physical fight, but I will not cower simply because he says he wants to discuss things in person.

I cowered with myself all last night and this morning. I finally realized that I need to have some balls and SHOW that I am as strong as I really am.

It'll be worse for him if he gets his a$$ beaten AND put in jail. I do believe you should call the police when he starts this physical altercation, any threats, anything illegal.

[Allen A]

QS, if there is more chatting tonight the plus side is you have MORE EVIDENCE... trap it all... he's putting nails in his coffin

[Allen A]

If you think you have enough then lock up her ip on the network and shut her down

[Puppy Dog Tails]

If you think you have enough then lock up her ip on the network and shut her down

It sounds like he has PLENTY.

I say, "shut 'er down!!!"

Puppy

[Quicksilver264]

I still haven't heard back from that officer. I am wondering if the CO got the email, or just didn't care.

I'd love to get the real CO's number and give him a call, but I cannot locate a # or email.

As far as the network tonight, I will be hard pressed to come up with a valid reason why her internet isn't working.

If I tell her that I shut it down, she will immediately know that I know what went on the other night. Again, my intel is the BEST thing I have going for me. It has allowed me to stay 3 steps ahead of her.

[Allen A]

YOu can set it to be "buggy".. it will shut down for a min and then start up again.. VERY annoying

You can schdule it to do this... she won't think its you if you are sleeping lol

[Quicksilver264]

Wow, I didn't think of that at all. I CAN do that. Every 3-5 min shut down and turn off her connection to the network.

Last time I shut down the whole thing though she just mooched off another wireless connection in the neighborhood. I'd have to configure her wireless adapter, but it's possible.

What has got me wondering now is what actually happened with his CO.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

It may not have reached his own CO yet. Remember, these are the same people we have trying to stop the oil spill . . .

[Allen A]

QS, you just get your head out of the mess for a while...

You are getting too much into the thick of the drama, and you won't be any good to anyone when that starts to hit you ... you will just get ill

You have to wait for a while before exposure hits the fan... but you should be feeling better that you did it...

Just go do some other work on the marriage or yourself for now...