They ALL say they are working on ending it.. they aLL SAY THAT...

They all say "I just need some time"

There was one poster on here I forgot who... The poor girl's husband was cheating on her for a year.. she found out about it and confronted him...

He cried and apologized then he moved out.. he told her he couldn't help it...

SHe exposed, then he came back, then told her he needed "time to work through it... he asked for 30 days"

She foolishly gave him the thirty days... He came back... she foolishly took him in

Three days later she caught him on the phone again with her

She was heartbroken

You want to play the same victim as all the other LBS' do to these addicts its your choice. All we can say is "we warned you"

He is NOT in control of the affair... period... He just has you thinking he is...

The affair is controling HIM... COLD TURKEY is how that ends... FAST...

The longer he drags it out, the more difficult its going to get to put an end to it for REAL

You were warned