DB Friends, The thorn in my side depressed person that my W worries about is moving out of town this week, about 600 miles away.
The distance may be a false sense of security.
Originally Posted By: Concerned_Listener
He gave my W a piece of furniture, and dropped it off last night. It does look nice in our dance practice area.
I would not accept any items from the friend that may serve as reminders.
Originally Posted By: Concerned_Listener
She was considering going over to her "friend's" house to help him pack. I asked her what time she would be home (different behavior).
What happened to your boundaries?!?! The boundary should be no contact, physical or otherwise ever again, and you simply asked when she would be home?? No wonder she gave you a strange look.
Also, the threat of going to an attorney to discuss options is fairly empty. You already know what your options are regarding an attorney. An attorney will may suggest you work through your issues with some councelling, file for a legal separation or file for divorce. Pretty cut an dry. The tough question is are you willing to take that drastic step if she crosses a particular boundary.
