REALLY? In writing?

Though I like the idea of face to face "right in the eyeballs" approach (it will show my demeanor), I could also launc it as a text to her once I know she is in the vehicle with OM.

That could create an interesting drive.

Of course, I will be unavailable for a day.
And I will read her texts at the end of the day so I can post them.

Anyone else have a preference?

Another reason I like the writing is that it is something I can use later (D Prodeedings?) and she can LOOK AT all week.

Now SHE can mind read rather than spending Quality Time with "The Putz"