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She then had the balls to say "so you're done, you're not willing to work on this". "You can't treat someone like [censored] for 10 years" and expect them to just forgive you overnight".

this part of your post stood out to me.
why do i think that was a missed opportunity?

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I said, I am still willing to try, what have I been doing for the last 5 months?

i think you should have just said that you were still willing to try and just end it there.

that's just me though.