that's ok, you can handle it, don't let her kick you out, listen to what she was saying: she wants to file for separation and have you move out but her logic behind this is to hopefully stir up some "positive feelings" towards you and your marriage together, I'll just come out and say it, that's a big lie, you did the right thing, stand your ground, if she wants to break up the marriage, file for separation/divorce, she can also be the one to move out, if she really wants to be out on her own, let her go, don't hold her back, in fact, hold the door open for her and let her go freely!