You want reasons for something that is unreasonable. You want logic when the MLCer is illogical. It's not just as simple as them 'being in a place where they can't listen' ... they don't care. Period. Typically, you are the cause of everything that is wrong with their life. You controlled them, suppressed them, stifled them, smothered them, parented them ... whatever. They didn't get to do "___" (fill in the blank with whatever you like, it doesn't matter, it's still your fault!). It's their time to shine ... blah, blah, blah.
