The wife just called me to ask for a seperation to hopefully "stir up some positive feelings within her" becuase counseling isn't working. She then asked me where I was going to stay. I said I'm not going anywhere, you are the one that wants to break up this family, not me. She then had the balls to say "so you're done, you're not willing to work on this". "You can't treat someone like [censored] for 10 years" and expect them to just forgive you overnight". I said, I am still willing to try, what have I been doing for the last 5 months? I am not moving out, I said. She said "we're done then" and hung up the phone. So I expect papers within the next several days.
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling