Just found out she already filed

[kat727]

Do you want to live a life scared of what her reaction would be or live a life which you can feel good about? No one wants to be a doormat, so don't be one. No one respects someone they can walk all over either.

She will wonder why you aren't answering her every whim. She will wonder why you aren't saving her. (Really women sometimes think like this). Just remember you are doing this to set boundaries, to keep you sane and let you grow strong and confident again(and yeah, sexy never hurts)lol

hang in there. kat