So my question is...while we talk to each other at night we don't talk to each other during the day. She had stopped doing it when she was in her EA and I had stopped doing it in the past month to not pursue. So should I resume calling her in the day or keep staying "dark"?
I'd like to see her initiate SOMETHING.
MB it appears that you're always there, you're not really giving her a lot of opportunity to miss you or want to pursue you or initiate something because you're the one always doing it.
You want her to initiate something, let her. She can't initiate anything if you're always there starting the process.
You want her to pursue you, let her. She can't pursue you if you are always pursuing her.