Why can't I talk this through? Just curious. And I hope you won't say because they are in a place where they can't listen. There has to be more to it than that. If we could write a book or come up with a vaccine to stop this MLC thing we would be trillionaires.
You want reasons for something that is unreasonable. You want logic when the MLCer is illogical. It's not just as simple as them 'being in a place where they can't listen' ... they don't care. Period. Typically, you are the cause of everything that is wrong with their life. You controlled them, suppressed them, stifled them, smothered them, parented them ... whatever. They didn't get to do "___" (fill in the blank with whatever you like, it doesn't matter, it's still your fault!). It's their time to shine ... blah, blah, blah.
Just curious ... I haven't heard of an MLCer who didn't have a laundry list of complaints about the LBS ... fill us in ... is there any truth to any of it? How do you see your role in the demise of your marriage?
Originally Posted By: ltaylor
I told my H that several months ago.
Of course you did. And you'd do it again wouldn't you?
PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
