See what you are doing right now is you are coming here asking for help and advice, but you are poo pooing the advice or insight you do not like. "Oh...we are different...or I know my husband."
You know...that might be the case. I am not trying to act superior, I just question why you are doing this. Why not TRY or attempt to try some of the ideas we offer and SEE if they show signs of working before you arbitrarily dissmiss them.
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How does a spouse forgive their WS for the A and still maintain their self respect?
Your SELF respect by the way comes from you. ME? I RESPECT myself more for being compassionate, forgiving, not for holding a grudge about whom my wife [censored] while she was in MLC.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
