Just found out she already filed

[kat727]

But why do you care whether she likes it or not? Do you like the idea of divorcing? She wants you to cave and rescue her...but it is time for this damsel to learn how to stand on her own to feet. It is all about choices...the ones she made.

Look it took a car wreck 2 years ago to get me to understand this. The accident wasn't my fault but I had S17(then 15) with me and we were both shaken up. First person I thought to call was H. After finding out that I could still drive the car and we weren't hurt, he didn't feel any responsibility to be there. I did ask him to come and he did about an hour later. He was done and none of this stuff mattered to him anymore.

Your W though is playing it for all she can. She wants it to be over but for you to come and fix everything for her like before. She can't have it both ways.

kat