do many women constantly complain about aches and pains that they have to say something bothers them All Day Long?! i usually come home to a 44 yr old woman complaining about an ache here, an ache there, "i don't know why i'm soooooo tired; we need a new kitchen, a new car; i want to move; etc."
this is another reason why i am in a ssm! she has aches and pains constantly, and that's game! i can forget about even thinking about having any sex. these aches are basic headaches, leg aches, foot aches, neck aches, shoulder aches; they're nothing serious, but they're enough to thwart any form of sex, or even any fun of any kind.
she's also Always tired!!! she's tired friday nights, monday nights, tuesday, wednesday, etc. she doesn't work during the summer, so you would think that maybe she would gain some strength through r and r and realize that it's perfect time to catch up on some "we" time, but that's not it at all. even if it's a friday night in the summer, she acts like it's a friday night during the school year! all she does is run the kids to camp and back again, and then she can do whatever she wants: household chores, hangout by the pool, shop, etc.
i mean, she's only 44, for goodness sakes! come on!
she is dead inside. there is no more passion in this marriage, no more desire to be with me as a wife, as a lover, not even as a friend, because all she wants to talk about is renovating the kitchen, and about her day at work, and about the kids. she's not into anything i am into: music, some sports, literature. she does ask about my day, but when i start to tell her what happened, she usually goes against me, rather than show support, or just listen.
Take care of some of her ache's pains and discomforts. However with the sheer volume, she has many excuses which to choose from and can rotate them. I don't understand why some wives will use just about any excuse to get out of sex from their husband.
As a man do what you can do to ensure that your wife wants you to "have it", and that would be staying in shape and in good clothing, and a good attitude. Present yourself such that you are desireable to a great many women out side of your house, some wives will desire you more if they know others want you.
