How about..."Hope you are feeling better. Saw a pretty good deal on a modem at XXX, you might want to check it out."
You are no longer the person she can come to and ask for help unless it involves DD. I know it sounds cruel but this is what she decided that she wants. Don't let her cake eat.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
