I am in a similar sit. although there is more than just depression in my case. I am about to leave my H b/c I just can't take the behaviour anymore. Living in the same space is making it just too difficult. I can do the DBing for about a week but then I just end up losing it. He just continues the same behaviour and it is very difficult for me but I continue to try to hold on to the positive. If u can just try to see the positive in him and hang on to that. It is the only thing that keeps me sane and wanting to hang on to the marriage. When someone is depressed they become so negative and it begins to wear u down after a while. If he begins doing that either leave the sit. or try to turn it into a positive.
M=42 H=51 Common-law 6yr Children: 11yr old daughter (previous marrIage) 6yr old son Bomb dropped January 2013
