Keep doing what you're doing. Your W said she doesn't think your changes will last. Making the changes for you means the changes will last. Perhpas one day your W will see that what she wants from a man in her life is now right in front of her...you with your new self.
Totally agree about the changes. Still working on me and feel pretty good. I am honestly in a much better place now than I was 6 months ago. I am more positive and it shows in my daily life.
Another point mutual friend told me the other day:
When MF asked how things are going with me W responds:
"GR8 doesn't even talk to me any more."
MF " Well isn't that what you wanted?"
W didn't really respond.
I think reality is setting in on W. I don't think she's any happier now than she was a year ago.
Well more reality is about to come once I email her with the finances about the house.
more to come next week.
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