I'm bumping this back up for me. I haven't been able to think or do what people have suggested so I haven't responded yet. Our 15th anniversary was this week....no cards no nothing from either of us.
M 39 H 39 1 son, 7
Multiple affairs before/during/and after separation, came clean, went to Retrouvaille, forgave each other, Piecing for over a year, same problems exist, back to counseling