Or pup you can use the classic "Hope for the best, prepare for the WORST"
It's more or less the same thing... and I don't think QS has prepared himself for divorce or his wife inevitably being with another man at all...
QS was your wife with another man before you two got married? I ask this often of men who have trouble dealing... They dealt with it enough to MARRY a woman who wasn't a virgin... but for some (understanable) reason its not the same AFTER teh marriage... its like they become a virgin again before your honeymoon... magically
Well, the truth is your wife is halfway having sex already... you will have to suck that up... If that's hwat you are afraid of... You will need to accept that she's going to have sex with SOMEONE a SOME point and ACCEPT her for a person, not some virgin mary... Cause she's not...
