I found out earlier this week that there was an oversight in the paperwork and my wife was not served. In any case the paperwork is filed and now my wife is wondering how she is going to live and go to school. She saw her sister yesterday who told her she was foolish and was giving up a great guy and future. My wife said she knows she should have chosen counceling but that she did not feel she had feelings for me to make the marriage work. In any case she is now talking to people and perhaps she may consider counceling as it could help and if it does not then nothing lost. My wife never thought I would file and now she is in a panic. I am going to a wedding this weekend with my brother and his family. Virginia will have more time to think. Will see what happens. Bobby O
