You need to find you balls man, NO WOMAN is going to respect a man who lets someone walk all over them like your wife is and like this OM is... He's borderline stalking your home... It's time to MAN UP
YOU shoudln't be SCARED.. OM shoudl be because you are going to "rain hell down on him" remember?
Where is that hell you were going to rain down on him?
FIND IT.. FAST
I agree -- time to LOSE THE FEAR, QS.
Don't MAKE us change your username to QuiveringSilver!
Seriously, ever since you came on here, your posts are FILLED WITH FEAR. "What if THIS happens? What if she does THAT?" "Now she is really really really mad!" "Now it is really really REALLY over!" etc.
Go back and read them.
Look, we all have fearful, even terrified moments. I certainly did. But you can't CONSTANTLY operate from a place of fear, or you'll NEVER be able to pull this off. There is so much more, strategically and tactically, that we can (and will need to) teach you, but we can't do if it we're spending all of our energy and time simply bucking you up. Sure, we can OCCASIONALLY do that, as you're going to have some really bad days, but NOT ALL THE TIME.
Seriously, QS -- lose the fear. Find your nuts. Stop quivering, and ACT. Lead.
