So what? BIG FREAKIN DEAL.. your wife's mad at you? Get it into your HEAD MAN... She's being INCREDIBLE CRUEL to you... you can sit there and let her bully you into a corner and cry and get ILL like I did for three months OR you can get your ASS UP and FIGHT for your DIGNITY in your OWN DAMN HOME
You do NOT have to put UP with this in your OWN HOME... Even if she leaves the home and stays at a friends place... YOU HAVE YOUR HOME BACK.. you are NOT being VIOLATED anymore, you get your PRIDE and CONFIDENCE back...
And so the CO calls your wife... that STILL takes the FUN notu of hte affair.. it becomes a embarassing MESS... the MORE you expose it and EMBARASS HER the less ROMANTIC and EXCITING it is...
That's the POINT, make the affair so UNPLEASANT that she has to END it to REDUCE her STRESS
Right now its not STRESSFUL at ALL... She has the run of the house, can say and do as she pleases and you do nothing about it other than WATCH in secret...
How is THAT scenario working for you?
You need to undersand that women are attracted to men they can respect... and being a putz hiding in teh corner wimpering isn't gonig to cut it... so put a stop to that NOW
This creep is NOT going to last long term... You already noticed she may be a bit offended by how sleazy he is... Affair couples success rates long term are 1 PERCENT... more than 99 percent FAIL... there's a reason for that
The WS in most cases or the OP eventually figure out the other is an overgrown selfish piece of Sh|t and they run out on them...
That's whats going to happen here if she continues on this path of excitement.. she will eventually get used and abused and realize this guys' a creep and eitehr she will cheat on him, or she will catch HIM cheating on HER and a big ugly mess will be walked way from... and you will be LONG GONE by then
You can DO something to have a CHANCE of AVOIDING that ugly mess by speaking UP NOW