Man, I sure am sorry to hear about your situation.
Remember, though, how you handle this difficult time is more important than anything else in terms of your son.
Houses can be blown down by the wind, spouses--unfortunately--can be selfish, immature, and unwilling to fight for their family and marriage, but losing these things doesn't have to define YOU. If you decide to be a real man, honor the lifelong commitment to your son, and are determined to weather these storms with dignity and honor, you are giving your son what is most important.
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