I understand what John is saying but I also think that adultery is like a war on the home front, especially if you are still sharing a house. It is an invasion and you bear battle scars.It is a fight and you can become fatigued just as a soldier would. Of course I have never experienced a major natural disaster and hope never to.
Kalni, I am reading along as always and wishing you and your family the best. You are a fighter and I appreciate your honest and real posts on your journey.