Wife changed her name on facebook to her new last name. It really hurt me. I am still in shock that she married someone so quick. This was not an affair that had been going on. This was truely an escape so that we would not get back together like we always do after a fight. She does not love me anymore. She is going to try to make this marriage to other man work. It will not. They have know each other for a couple of weeks now. This is not a joke. She was so scared of getting back with me and me treating her bad that she married the first person that even thought about asking her. I know she doen't love him. She told me herself that she doesn't even know him. This should be prove alone that she is nuts. And I do fully intend to go my own way now. I have heard lots of crazy stories on this site but mine still stands of one of the stupidest. My wife is not the one I feel in love with, she is not the women I loved. She is a drug addict that has went off her rocker. Marrying a guy after knowing him 5 days. She was not a whore or slut. She was a decent girl. I am still in shock but have been talking to people like my mother and a counceler. I have been going out with friends and having good times where I don't think about this. It is just pure insanity. You people have a chance to get your marriage back but I do not. She is already married. 5 damn days after telling me how much she loved me. And no, he is not better looking than me, makes less money, doesn't care about her as much, and these are her words. But he doesn't call her names or make her feel bad about herself yet. When he finds out that she will not do anything that might change. We had a little fight and she just said screw it-I have to do something that will make me never go back. She did it. NO matter what happens I will not take her back. And I do believe that she will be showing up on my door in a couple of months asking to work it out. But, maybe not, maybe you can fall in love with someone you meet for 5 days. What an idiot she is. Oh, well, I really am not angry with her, I feel sorry for her. I know she has a drug problem and mental issues. So, no one can tell me what to do except get over it and leave her. She is not like you guy's exes. She is truly a nut. She has really lost her mind. No one gets married for the sake of making sure she doesn't get back with their husband. It is just such a damn shock. This is not a DBing issue. This is an issue that she is really not fit to be my wife again although I really believe that will be a decision I will be making some day. And the answer will be no. Hell no.
