I feel like a grown-up, so thank you. I think it is a good thing.
I would never have made these decisions on my own when we were married. I was such a pleaser I would do whatever Dan thought best. If he wanted different coverage on the insurance policies, that is what we would get. And I have only had one car since we got married, after my high school car died. Dan and I picked it out together and I don't remember voicing much opinion.
It feels good to make these financial decisions on my own and not regret making them or second-guess myself.