Xin you can change your mind about moving out! It seems like it is a hardship/obstacle for you....he is the one who wants the separation, not you!

Plenty of people DB while living in the same house, although it is tough. One advantage is that the spouse sees you coming and going and sees your changes. But the disadvantage is that you see your spouse "in luv" with the OW. I couldn't take that torture so I made him leave. BUt by him visiting S at the house, he got to see my changes.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004