so did you ever ask your WH why he didn't ask about your bub while he was gone for 2 weeks?
And yes, it was very painful (is) to see stbxh during visits but I compartmentalized. At the time I was all about divorcebusting for the marriage so I just kept my eye on the prize.
Limbo was excruciating, looking back on it.
I hope Gatsby's sign is right! Well, unless you are done with your H...
OK I am still slow about the visitation thing....are you wanting to avoid seeing your WH altogether? Because couldnt' he just come over and you can go take a shower or go to the store or something?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004