Hi all. Great to hear from everyone. I promise to try to do better.

Kat, it is the same guy who sends me flowers. We have been seeing each other around two months now and I get flowers weekly.

Sarah, I'm out of order with the alphabet. His name is Mr. R.

The thing with going through infidelity and divorce it is hard to settle into a new relationship. Mr. R is wonderful,very attentive, full of compliments, opens doors, all the things a gentleman does. Only problem is...I got so used to being treated so poorly and berated that I have a hard time of accepting his compliments without making a negative comment. Yes, I know we all deserve good things to happen to us, I'm working on simply saying thank you.

After going through this unwanted journey for nearly 4 years I have become very independent. I think Mr. R thinks too much sometimes. I think he would like to "rescue" me. His past relatonships seem to have been with needy women somewhat.

I'm taking days one day at a time and not rushing into anything.

Hugs to all of you. -- Yoyo




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon