Baby born, separated, WH moving overseas for OW

[gatsby11]

I'm going to be honest, P. If my WH had an open OW and was leaving the country to live and be near her. . . I would be livid. I'm mad enough without those factors. With them, I don't know if I could do face-to-face contact. If you can, you will have so much strength and courage. It will be so hard.

Your WH is being so distant and irritatingly polite. It hurts to even hear about it!

Yeah, why is he so passive? That's aggravating.

So you've been having family be the go-between for you two for a while and now it's getting tiring for them? I'm wondering what else you could possibly do. . . Can BIL or MIL 'facilitate' visits by being there so you can leave?

Confession: I'm always doing this "signs" stuff. Very superstitious, etc etc. I now know your real name, of course. That's part of my signs. So I sort of asked the universe to see a sign for you and your WH if there was any hope for you two. And literally one second later I saw a sign.

I don't know why I see signs. I tend to think they comfort me when I need it and may not mean anything real. So if it means anything to you, good. If you don't want there to be hope for you and WH, then just ignore it.