Honey, I'm sorry you are having a rough night. It's perfectly normal at this stage.
My son was your son's age when all this started. You need to do what you have to regarding him. My h was running away from the responsibility and someone had to be the grown up. So, I dug in and did it. You can, too.
So please stop trying to contact your h and handle it because he is incapable of it right now.
