Thanks Allen and Puppy. In my case, which you've helped me with elsewhere in this forum, what's the best way to respond to a cheating spouse who won't end an affair and who keeps wanting to draw up a separation/divorce agreement? (In my state, a couple must be separated for a year before divorcing.) I'm doing my GAL (traveling, socializing, etc.) and LRT/NC, but when my cheating spouse texts me about meeting to discuss this stuff, how do I handle that without bringing us closer to divorce?