I'm starting to think the old school method of shooting the guy or having his a$$ beaten severly is the best way. First it teaches him that its not good to screw with a wife of yours. It teaches others not to screw with wives. And it teaches anyone who knows about it not to screw with a wife of yours.
I am with you. If I find out who it is, it would take all of my being not to beat the bastard to within an inch of his life. I would not becasue I want to get AT LEAST co-parenting or more. I am not so sure she wants custody, he would cramp her new found freedom to screw as she wishes.
