Puppy, yes my behavior is what has gotten me here all right. I was actually really taken with MDW when I read her book "A woman's guide to changing her man without his even knowing it". I think the title has changed for that book now. And I did buy Divorce Remedy. I have read a few chapters. there is also a forum section that just deals with 180 ideas. So, i'll have to read that too. Her positive attitude and examples/detailed explanations are just what I needed.
Someone mentioned Codependency. I need to do some reading about that too. My C recommended that in our last session.
Can any of you venture a guess as to what stage of MLC my H might be in? It might help in coming up with 180s or behavior changes for me.
