LW, What is stopping you from finding that inner peace again ? What are your obstacles ?
Well for starters...I have just experienced my first post M casualty. I called it off with the guy that I was seeing...and it didn't go as well as I expected.
I was honest. Told him I wasn't ready. Told him I was sorry. I didn't give him the "it's not you it is me" speech..but I did say that I was going thru alot and I have been distracting myself to avoid dealing with what was going on in my life.
He responded with "I thought you were the nicest, most honest, kindest girl I have ever met...I was wrong"...and then said "you married a cheating man and dated a drunk who got hit by a train...I don't understand". He made this easier for me. I feel terrible.
I am truly EXHIBIT A of why not to get into a rebound relationship!!!!
Well now that I have learned another lesson the hard way...I am on a quest for inner peace????!!!! or perhaps a good night's sleep will be suffficient for now. I'll start small.
