TH, It is about breaking the "us," but it is also good for you and that is where the focus needs to be. Yes, you can be civil but good to keep it all business where possible.
Too easy to stay unhealthfully attached when you are friends. One person usually wants more. I do believe you need to become friends again if you are standing and want to get back together, but that might not be in the cards for a while for many people.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D