Still trying to find my way

[Mystik]

Swiss Miss, hi and welcome. My son is very smart and picks up on things. He also has a very vivid imagination so he comes up with some crazy ideas on his own that to him are very real. DS tells me nothing about H which I'm ok with. Good luck with your H.

Bluestar, DS is 6. I thought at that age he should be allowed the same privacy I ask for when on the phone. Besides which, whatever he talks to H about is for him and H, not me, especially if it's stuff that I won't want to hear, like about the whore. I will ask the C if she thinks him being there the amount of time he is could be doing more harm than good.

Abbey, hope your time away was nice, if it was not nice then I'm sorry to hear that. I think H got the point to back off, he's been fairly civil in our last few contacts without pressuring me or even mentioning divorce.

NM, not reading anything yet, hoping the therapist can recommend something to me. I do need to check out that Sandcastles book Flowmom suggested to you. I already told H I was going to get DS back to the therapist because I was worried about him, he just doesn't know the appointment is on Monday. I can tell H until I'm blue in the face that I have not slandered him to DS but he won't believe me. He wants me to be the bad guy so he doesn't have to feel guilt about what he's putting his son through.