Still trying to find my way

[Mystik]

Wow, lots to catch up on. Let me cover a few key areas first.

H and I have custody and support orders in place. We do not have a legal separation or anything like that in place. So everything as far as DS goes is set, but as far as NYS is concerned H and I are legally married so he is absolutely committing adultery.

DS sees a therapist on Monday the 12th. This weekend I will be making a list of things that DS has said/done that are areas of concern for me. I will let H know, probably at the exchange on Sunday, of DS's appointment if he wants to go. But I will be sure that we talk individually to the therapist so that H cannot try to dispute or twist what I say should he choose to attend the appointment. Actually, I may not tell H about the first appointment, I'll let him know for the next one, should there be a second one which I'm quite confident of.

As for H's family, it does make me sad that they are turning their backs towards me when they had said two months ago if I ever needed them they were there for me. But I know their loyalties lie with H, and whatever tales he's telling, I can't do anything about.