make sure you are documenting and saving texts and emails

nothing justifies your wife manipulating you and using the boys as pawns

no one has ever suggested that she is "right" that I recall

what people have suggested is that you stop and look at it from her vantage point

her perspective

it doesn't make it right but it allows you a new view

from this view
you may be able to reach a compromise

admitting there were things you did wrong
you did
without adding a but anywhere
is a great way to open those lines of communication

there are no good guys and bad guys

there are confused guys and hurt guys
guys who made decisions and guys who made poor choices


remember that