First question from W when I walk through the door is "so are you ok telling the kids tonight?" I say "Yeah, whatever." She finishes cooking dinner, we all eat and D wants to go outside to play with friends. W call her back and says, "So you guys know that Mom and Dad have been sleeping in different rooms because we haven't been getting along, right? well, we have decided to get a divorce." At this point, my D throws a crumpled-up napkin in her face. W continues "We both love you very much and want you to know that this isn't because of anything you did. We don't know all of the details, but for now, we are all going to be living in the same house." S asks, "What's the problem?" W says "Just adult problems. Mom and Dad don't love each other like a husband and wife should, so we have decided that this is best. Dad, do you have anything to add?" So I ask if they have any other questions and tell them that I am giving them a pad and paper to write down any questions they think of so we can talk about them when we have the chance. The kids seem normal and then go outside to play.
I really HATE W right now for doing this to our family and I want to tell it to her face. I want her to feel what I am feeling. I don't even want to look at her anymore.....
