D4MIL- I'm sorry support is thin lately. I've been to your thread before but it was awhile ago. Will try to get back over. I agree with you, there's still that good person underneath. But they're behaving badly right now, not treating us right, thinking only of themselves. I still love, but am not liking too much what I see from spouse these days...
P4M- thank you. I do have a plan, just can't be detailed about it here in this thread, which is what I'm struggling with. I did sleep, today was much better and taking action of various kinds helped a lot. Feeling 180 degrees differently than last night, and it's my own doing, not in reaction to spouse.