at the beginning, no. they were here for two weeks. the first week was fine. the second week .. things got a bit chilly. his mother talks to me like i'm four years old. after a week of being treated like a child, i started giving short responses to her questions.
i also got tired of her taking over our home. the home and christmas tree were designed by me. and she brought so much of my h's childhood christmas ornaments and basically rearranged my tree with everything she brought. she asked my h if it was okay but she wouldn't ask me. my h would say that it's okay. but still, nobody would ask me if it was okay. basically i felt that they erased what i created and made it "theirs". why didn't anybody ask me? so when i asked why my ornaments were moved to the back of the tree? she'd go crying to my h and say that i was mad at her and that i made her feel unwelcomed. and that i was threatening her. i never made a threat. i didn't ask in an angry tone. it was just a question. i got tired of the exaggeration and being accused of being mean. so i just left them in their own world. if anything, i felt unwelcomed in my own home. it felt like only the three of them (h, his father, and his mother) were the only people in the house. i was invisible.
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Can you understand why his parents may have felt unwelcome when you decided to be icy to them to get back at your H?
