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[mishka422]

He doesn't say "I refuse to talk to you." He says, "Why do you have to discuss this? I told you I'd erase the number, period, cut and dry. You're being ridiculous." Then he shuts down and shuts me out and won't speak to me for hours or sometimes the next day. That is how he reacted to the last incident. Other times he gets upset and storms out of the house. When I try to talk and address anything about our R he gets mad. His other favorite response is "I thought we were getting along really good and enjoying being together. Why do you have to bring this up?" Mind you, I'm addressing an issue that is keeping me from growing trust in him and he gets defensive. Red flag in my book!

Thanks for the encouragement OT. I really value your advice and love how you are so direct. It's so helpful to me. No pussy-footing around.