Hey Allen thanks for getting As far as the MC I have done my research back in 09 when we first went to see her. At that time my wife was actually working with me... Our MC/ My IC is wonderful and has been dead on about us/W. She knows everything about both of us and has helped us both out more so me. From the time we came back this year and she was the one who told me about Michelle.
MC is the one who knew exactly what my W was doing to me. W decided she wasn’t going back to MC after our last secession last week!! (Last time she did that she was having the affair) this was back in the mid of Jan this year. I wonder why there is always so much drama with her. When my W called it quits with OM back in Feb the first few days after I found out. W had showed me no more Facebook with him, emails, and number gone from phone. Has she been remorseful yes and pretty up front with me since.
It is just hard not knowing what’s up now that we are separated There is a part of me that says she might be in contact with him in some way since he was going to be working up here sometime with the Government. This also ironic to make this short this has happened to her as she was pregnant with her ex... W said she would never do this and I know how her family feels about the whole situation with her ex. Our S is no biologically mine, but calls me dad and I’m blessed to have him in my life.
Both of us haven’t been perfect and we both had faults in our M just never adultery with me. I want to move forward in our M to be stronger, and still think we can. The only person who has given me that support besides the people in this form is my IC/MC. Not family, or friends yes some say that their maybe hope, but most say I’ll just get through.
Yes I know I can get through and move on. However I want my W and family together. I’m going to try harder at the no contact since S is visiting Family out of state. What can I do now besides being patient and acting as if this is going to happen? Any tips or advice would be appreciated thank you talk soon Hope!!
