I remember being chastised by someone here for saying once that this would be so much easier without kids. They said don't you think your wife can sense that? Maybe she can, but the fact remains that I don't worry about feeling like a failure. I don't feel that way anymore. I am worried about my(our)kids. I know I have to make it as easy as possible on them. Easy is pretty relative, though. None of this is easy of fair ON THEM.
