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Often, anger is used to avoid feeling the underlying hurt.

i think i get it now.
forrest and coach have been drilling it in me for weeks (if not months). i never understood why he was so angry at me .. sometimes i have to talk it out like this.

the anger in my h is masking the underlying hurt that he is feeling.
probably feelings of rejection from me.

i'm so sorry for making you (my h) feel that way.